Ah yes, another song title because I didn’t really know what else to put. So anyways, I have a question for you. Yes, you. What do you think your role in your “friendship circle” is? I ask this because I find myself getting rather annoyed with my friends lately, granted they probably won’t realize this until they read this but oh well. Anyways, so I’ve pretty much accepted the fact that I am the planner in my group of friends. I am the one who calls everyone and finds out what day and time would be good for everyone to hang out. In most cases, sometimes someone else takes on this role but for the most part it is me and I hate doing it. I feel like I am pushy and trying to “force” people to hang out with me. So I am done. If someone wants to hang out with me or anyone else then they can make the effort I am DONE. Granted, I am sure my friends will be not happy with me when they read this blog but considering this isn’t directed to most of my friends anyways it’s not that big of a deal. For the most part Becca calls me, because well … we have class together and Brittany and Rachel would BUT they moved away. Although, Brittany calls me to talk so I guess that’s something haha. I’m just tired of it. If someone wants to hang out with me, then the phone is your friend otherwise don’t expect a call from me each week asking people what their schedules are like. I know school and work gets in the way for many people, but if they learned to manage their time a bit better maybe they could find time for their friends. I sound like such a bitch, but oh well.
Sorry had to get that out. In other news, I applied at FSU early in September and a month later my application is giving me some problems. I am trying to work things out but if all else fails I can apply at FSU another time. I also applied at USF for their graphics design program, so I am excited about that. I just need to send them my transcripts for college and high school and see how things go. Are you applying for school anywhere? Haha, is it stressing you out as much as it is me lol?
I know I blogged about 2 days ago, but I needed to vent a bit. It’s almost 2, so I think I will work on some of that site stuff I spoke of last week and then I must get ready for work since I work tonight. At least I have Thursday and Friday off, yay. Have a happy and safe week. I’ll return comments later, thanks. Lastly, I got a Vox account so if you have one as well feel free to add me.
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I am also the planner of my group, well me and my one other friend is too. I’m usually doing all the calling and figuring out the where/when and I find it to be annoying as well. I hope your friends realize that it takes two (or three, or four lol) in a friendship!
I’m not the planner. I’m the follower. When my friends want to hang out, they usually ask me to go with them. Maybe because I usually hang out with Mom? Yeah..
Good luck on applying in that school!
sometimes im the planner sometimes not. coz there are times that me and my friends dont plan at all! its more fun though..more of an adventure that you have no idea what’ll you do and where to go lol… coz sometimes when we do plan, it’ll not turn out the way we wanted to.
Well, I’m a rather lazy kind of person.. and um… my firends are rather few (a whooping mass of 3 – out of which one is rather more an online friend).
I guess, it can get tiring to do that, not to mention stressful to constantly think that you’re pushy. Then again, maybe people just got used to you doing it, and not really thinking anything about it. Just like in a family: X cleans the bedrooms, and Y washes the dishes…. and Z plans the parties…
Hmm… applying for school? I applied to uni 4 years ago (am in senior year at computer science), but I’m not really sure how to help you, as at that time most unis had entrance exams which counted for 80% of your score… so um… my main concern was passing said exams.
No we might not have went through with the wedding but that doesn’t do nothing for the way that he is acting or the fact that I spent almost $400 dollars on an almost $800 originally wedding dress. Which I cannot just pull money out of my rear end whenever i’d like to :\
i think everyone\’s having a case of the \’shitty\’ friends right now, at least everyone I come across. i hope they straighten up soon & if not, out grow them & move on. ah. this shit sucks, lovely layout though suga ♥*
I’m more of a follower in my group, but that also leads to people walking over me and forgetting about me.
Good luck with school though ! I’ll have to deal with that stress next year =(
For the first question, I’m definitely the go to person for advice. Everyone comes to me for that. They also come to me when they need to be cheered up, etc.
As for schools, I’m already a Junior at Montclair State University. I’m majoring in French Translation & minoring in German language.
I am the advice giver. I am the sensible one. I’m the one who is seen not to have much fun, but knows he is fun, if only someone gave him the chance. =]
Daniel xx
im the peace maker in my group. i hate drama so when my friends decide to participate in making some im always sucked in it no matter what. i know how you feel. it sucks trying to get your friends together as well and it’s like they don’t even care. blah. htat makes me so mad! lol.
I honestly don’t know what role I play in my friends circle. I guess the one that makes them laugh.
No, I’m not applying for school anywhere. I don’t think I’m gonna go to college.
You should always just apply, even if in the end you decide not to go, because you don’t want to find out later on that it was something that you really wanted, but are left with limited options.
College is a much more different atmosphere than High School, it’s the first step into the real world, and an experience you wouldn’t want to list.
On another point, I’m usually the planner because I don’t follow rules well lol.
Hm. I don’t really have much of a role in friendship. I don’t even have many friends to begin with, and the ones I do have either live too far away from me, or they have pretty much dropped me. I’m always the one to call, and I always get the voicemail, and I send a quick voice message, and I don’t get anything else. So I pretty much gave up.
I’m kinda passed the applying to college point. Wait…no, not really, but at the moment I’m not in college, and it’s going to take another year or so before I can at least go part time. I do know that it is very stressful though. I got into 4 colleges, and I went to my first choice and didn’t like it too much. So…but good luck.
i actually dont have friends. i was always the follower tho in high school. but later on i detatched myself from people i knew i would never see again after graduation so i was mainly just a loner. xD
I think in my group of friends I am the follower. I have this bad habit too where I cannot take sides… at all. It’s really annoying actually.
Ugh, honestly, I hate it when it’s like. You’re always supposed to be the one to contact everybody and nobody ever bothers to talk to you first or take the initiative to call everybody up. >_>
As for me … well. I’m not so sure @_@
I’m the bodyguard of my group, really. I’m the one that people hide behind when they need someone to fight their battles, or just someone that will let them “suckle the power teat” if you will. A lot of my friends hide behind me in drama because I’m the only one that fights the battles and says EVERYTHING I want to say.